What's with that! Hey I can see where people would have a problem with lesbian gender rolls. I'm lesbian and I have a problem with lesbian gender rolls myself! I personally the Ellen stuck her neck out displaying photos of her recent wedding to Portia on the show. Well if they were both dressed the same and if Ellen wasn't always behind Portia taking on a man's position I would feel better about it. Personnally I think uniting in any way or fashion for lesbians is bad luck. Who stands to lose the most here? And it's so amazing that Ellen's mother never gets any older looking. I am implying anything! This is merely an observation! She's as cute as ever!

I guess the bottom line is - as long as they at happy I am happy for them. I only think younger lesbians can be free to be lesbian and not fannel butch. Weird! If both are butch okay or both lipstick then I'm okay!

You see I dated men and if I would have wanted a man I would have married one of them. Actally I dated very nice men I just happened to know then even that I connected at the heart and everyhing else so much better with women. Well some women - you know! Your not attracted to just everone.

I feel very lucky and blessed to be dating someone now who is so well matched for me. I guess straight or gay write down your wish list then put it away somewhere and in a short time experience your dream. Try it! It. An hurt!

Well I am sorry I feel as I do about the lesbian roll playing I only think acceptance would be easier if we didn't try to copy the straight world. But testosterone levels varying I guess I can see and accept that. I'm trying! Guess I was brought up too strict of Catholic. The rules were strict to the point of demonic and evil. I tried real hard to color within the lines. Personnally I wish I felt Ellen's confidence! You have to hand it to her. She feels the love of her non judgemental audence and of them I am very proud.